If you’re thinking about hiring an escort, or paying for any kind of sexual service, then I firstly want to say: good for you. Sex is something a majority of people enjoy and, even, need. Paying for it is a more than valid option for having that need met.
At the beginning of this year, I hired a pro dominant. I did it because I wanted an easy set up that would let me get the things I wanted (very naughty and kinky sex) without hassle or drama. It didn’t take long before I came to fully understand the value of sex work and it was an experience I will never regret.
Hiring an escort for the first time is not an anxiety-free experience. To a lot of people it feels like an alien concept. There is huge stigma around paying for sex that can make the whole thing hard to get your head around. But you’re not alone in wanting to explore this option and I want to talk to you about why.
Excitement
First thing’s first: paying for sex is exciting. The fact that it’s taboo only heightens the experience. Yes, handing over the cash can be a little awkward. But, it also feels illicit in a way that is undeniably hot. Plus, there’s likely been some build up to the occasion. Looking at an escort’s profile or website is a massive tease and it’s fun to be on the edge of your seat as you wait for the real thing.
Discretion
There are many reasons to be discreet when it comes to our sex lives, and discretion is something a lot of people ask for from service providers. Hiring an escort is the perfect way to keep certain activities on the down low and to enjoy sex without judgement or stress.
Exploration
If you have specific kinks, fetishes or roleplays that you’ve not had the chance to explore before, seeking out an escort is a great way to get started. There will always be someone out there who is into what you’re into. Take out any chance of uncertainty by finding a service provider who specialises in your interests.
Convenience
One of the huge perks of hiring an escort is its convenience. Those with hectic lives and crammed schedules can simply make a booking and not have to think about it again until the date. You don’t need to worry about making elaborate plans or putting time you don’t have into dating. Sex, intimacy and friendship are all possible within the bounds of a transactional relationship. With an escort you can fit all those things into your life however suits you.
Self Care
You know what hiring an escort can be? An absolute treat. Good company, conversation, intimacy and sex are all things that boost our mood and relax us. Hiring an escort for an evening of mutual enjoyment is just as valid as paying for a weekend away, or any other self care activity.
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