FAQ

logistics

Do you travel outside of London?I am able to travel outside of London for Train-Me-To-You and Fly-Me-To-You bookings. You can find more information about this on my playspace page. I don't often tour (although it's on my bucket list!) - if this changes, you will be able to find updates on my BlueSky and Telegram channel.

Do you provide in calls?I provide in calls at a flat in South East London and I love to host there! You can find out more on my playspace page.

Can you meet me at my home?My preference is to either meet people at my South East London in call, or at central London hotels. I can however meet you at your home (especially if we have met before!). For visits to your home, I will ask you to send me proof of address as part of my screening process.

How much does it cost to meet you?My rates are bespoke and how much a session costs depends on various things, such as the activities and length of the booking.

As a general guide, a 1 hour submissive experience booking is usually between £400-£800. A 1 hour GFE booking is usually between £300-£500.

Can I bring my own toys or outfits?You can! I will ask to see any toys you're intending to use (out of curiosity and to make sure I'm happy to play with them!). You can wear whatever you choose to our booking, or bring outfits for me to wear. If you want me to wear something, or to buy me clothing, please get in touch to make sure the size is right!

I do also have a wide range of my own toys and outfits that we can use.

safety & boundaries

What sort of screening do you require?To confirm a booking I will always need your phone number, a deposit and a form of ID. Depending on the nature of the booking, I might also ask you to fill in a negotiation form, provide proof of address/proof of hotel booking and a phone call. 

You can read more about my screening process on my booking page. 

What is the 'negotiation form' and why do I have to fill it in?The negotiation form is something I only ask for from people booking a submissive or kinky experience. I created the form to help establish boundaries and outline the scene you want to take place before we meet. Most people find it enjoyable and helpful to fill out, and a good way to start getting excited about our booking!

Negotiating a scene is a key part of BDSM and as a submissive who plays with people the first time I meet them, it is extra important that I know the expectations of the scene in order to feel safe.

Do you offer unprotected intimate services?I don't offer any unprotected services, other than unprotected oral sex (although this is at my discretion). I get regular sexual health screenings and encourage people who visit me to do the same.

What are your hard limits?There are some things that I never offer during a session, such as:

- Unprotected penetrative sex or genital-to-genital contact
- Breath play or choking
- Face slapping
- Permanent marks
- Breaking the skin
- Race play
- Fisting
- "Painal" / anal intended to hurt

This is not an all-inclusive list and any activities we engage in need to be discussed beforehand so I can give full consent. Reading through my website will give you a good idea of the type of things I enjoy.

Can I tie you up?I do offer bondage but usually not during a first session. Once we've built a level of trust, I'm much more comfortable with both bondage and sensory deprivation (eg blindfolds and gags).

sessions & services

Will you dominate me?Although I am primarily a submissive, I do enjoy topping from time to time and can have a bit of a sadistic streak. I am also happy to offer adult-baby minding, as I know this is a hard to find service, and ABDL is something I enjoy generally!

I am not an expert in domination but I am able to use my experience as a sub to offer gentle domme sessions and switchy fun.

Do you see couples?I do see couples! The screening process for couples is slightly different and I will ask to hear from both of you independently in order to make sure everyone's on the same page and that the experience is tailored perfectly for you both.

Do you have any friends who would join us in a session?I am lucky enough to have lots of lovely friends in the industry who would be more than happy to join us! Feel free to get in touch with your preferences and the kind of experience you're after and I can recommend some people who would be a good fit.

Between me and my friends we're able to offer classic threesomes and foursomes, sessions where you and I sub to a domme together, and sessions where you and a domme both top me. I can also arrange cuckolding sessions and sessions with a male escort.

Can we go to a dungeon together?I offer sessions at dungeons across London, with my usual dungeon of choice being E1 DARKROOM in Limehouse. 

Read more about what to expect during a dungeon session with me on my dedicated page.

Do you offer taboo roleplays and age play?Age play, including DDlg, ABDL and school girl roleplays, is one of my specialties and something I enjoy very much! I also enjoy other taboo roleplays, such as incest roleplay and CNC (consensual non-consent). I do not offer race play.

videos & filmings

Can we film our sessions or take photos?I allow filming and photos at my discretion. You must ask me first and there will be an extra cost.

How can I buy your videos?You can buy my videos directly from me using the form on my online services page. Otherwise, I mainly sell my videos on Clips4Sale and ManyVids. My OnlyFans has a back catalogue of dozens of videos and photos that you can subscribe to access, and subscribing to my LoyalFans gives you a discount on my video library.

My favourite way to sell videos is through hard copies, which I can put onto memory sticks and give to you in person at our bookings, or at an arranged time and place.

How can I be in your videos?If you would like to be in one of my videos, please reach out and let me know. I will tell you scenes I'm planning and you can choose what would suit you.

Unless you are already a content creator with your own channels and platforms, and a history of working with other adult performers, I will ask for full rights to the content. You will be able to keep a personal copy, but not distribute it. In order for me to sell the content, I will need you to sign a form and bring your ID, which I will need to keep a photo of.

You can learn more about being in my videos on my online services page.

about you

I am Black / Asian / Trans - will you see me?Yes! As long as you are respectful during your communications with me and complete my screening, I am happy to see anyone of any ethnicity or gender.

I don't have much experience - is this okay?I am more than happy to see people with any level of sexual experience, however much or little that may be. I also encourage people who are looking to try kink or BDSM for the first time to reach out. You can read more about what to expect during your first booking with me on my homepage.

I am X years old - will you see me?As long as you are over 18 you are welcome to reach out. I don't have an upper age limit.

about me

Do you offer lesbian experiences and what is your sexuality?I am genuinely bisexual and love to meet people of any gender. Women, trans women, NB and AFAB people are more than welcome to reach out. I also enjoy duo and trio escort bookings with my female friends and love being dommed by women!

Do you have a wishlist / can I buy you things?You absolutely can and I would love it if you did! Check out my wishlist if you want to treat me at home, or bring something along to our booking.

Some of my favourite things to receive are books and graphic novels, lingerie, cat-friendly flowers, white wine and chocolate. I also love being surprised and handmade gifts/gifts that remind me of you are extra special.

If you have any other questions, you might find the answers in the dedicated FAQs on my submissive and GFE pages.